5 Comments Every Indian Woman Got Fed Up With Hearing Once She Is In A Relationship

Leela Adwani |Sep 08, 2019

This can be considered as one of the most humiliating comments that a woman usually faces once she got married.

As a feminist, especially a young one, she is always relatively conscious of any problematic thing that someone said to her every day. Whether it’s about her body, her future, her behaviour or her intelligence, such comments seem to be lighthearted jokes, but somehow they easily turn out to be the toxic belief which might get drilled into her mind.

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It’s still true for girls who are in a relationship. Here are 5 comments women got fed up of hearing.

When do you settle down?

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The fact that there are various types of women in the relationship as not all girls consider marriage as the be-all and end-all of their life. They might prefer some types like an open relationship, no-strings-attached relationship, or live-in relationship rather than getting married.

It isn’t a good sign he is yet to make a proposal of marriage

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Well, we are living in the 21st century and why only men can propose marriage as women can do it too if she deems it fit.

You’re a married woman, and you don’t need to work

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This can be considered as one of the most humiliating comments that a woman usually faces once she got married. It probably leads to a host of questions like "why women can't share the financial burden with their husband?" Or "why people don’t ask men this question?" And you name a few.

Your career will come to an end after marriage

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Sheryl Sandberg’s words in Lean In: Women, Work, and the Will to Lead seem to be an ultimate reply when you have to hear such comment.

 "And I hope that you - yes, you - have the ambition to lean in to your career and run the world. Because the world needs you to change it.”

You cannot enjoy your life freely once you’re married

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Marriage never means you have to sacrifice your freedom and independence. Marriage also means respecting their partner’s own space.

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