7 Reasons Why A Longterm Relationship Can Speedily End After Marriage

The idea of taking the relationship into a new level - marriage seems to appeal to almost everyone. However, the reality is not always as we expected. Here come seven reasons why weddings could put an end to a longterm relationship.

Even though you finally can spend the rest of your life with your beloved one, you still feel 'something wrong' with your marriage life. "Something wrong" here, which is unexplainable, could progressively lead to an end to your seemingly everlasting relationship.

Therefore, before planning for your dream wedding, slow down and take a look at these relationship contemplations.

1. The lack of devotion

When we are young and crazy in love, we take advantage of every opportunity to tell them how much we love them and how lucky we are to have them in our life. After a lot of arguments, we still try our best to keep them around.

However, once we're married, we will take our lover for granted. We don't see them the way we used to see them, gradually, a wall is built for no reason.

2. Start with too much emotion, end up with nothing

According to a study, the more affectionate couples are at the early stage of a relationship, the higher the possibility of divorce is. When we get to the point that our love is not enough to surprise them anymore, things start going down.

At this point, you will feel as if your effort is hopeless, and there is nothing exciting left to experiment with.

3. It wasn't "love" at first

Are we actually in love with them, or are we just in love with the feeling of being around them? We feel so safe and comfortable when going out with our boyfriends/girlfriends, but sometimes, it's not the exact emotion we have for them.

"Love" is an easy word to say but a hard one to feel. But when you can differentiate it, it's often too late.

4. Your need is not the same anymore

The ideal celebrity couple - Miley Cyrus and Liam Hemsworth, separates after having a two-year marriage. Why? Because they now take other priorities such as self mature and careers. Change is unavoidable, and all of us have to go through it. Some couples grow and develop with each other, while others decide to focus on individual goals.

5. The simple need to settle down

Sometimes, we find it extremely stressful with the thought of going out there and find a new lover again. We feel tired of that vicious circle, so we merely label them as 'the other.' However, doing this means you may waste your time and miss out on the right person. We all have the wish to settle down someday, but we should not let the marriage pressure take over too much.

6. The discovery of an unexpected side of your partner

Our guts are revealed through times, and so are theirs. Don't claim that you know everything about your lover right from the first place! Once we get into a marriage and meet our partner 24/7, we will uncover new things about them, some are good, some are relatively negative.

So, prepare yourself for those unexpected things! We can not know that, perhaps, dishonesty, financial issues, and many other things are awaiting ahead.

7. "Swipe right" while you should "swipe left"

When we're deeply in love, our mind is easily blurred by the image of a 'happy ever after' ending. As mentioned above, the reality is always different from the rom-com movies. Accordingly, you will not wake up every day with the love of your partner, and everything will go well. Marriage is an on-again-off-again status.

So, to every couple out there who are crazy in love or getting fed up with each other, giving a deep thought to the contemporary state of the relationship is always essential.