10 Simple Tips To Make You Become A Good Kisser

Kissing someone is always an exciting and nerve-racking moment. How not to be rejected and how to impress the other person with your kissing skills? Don’t worry; we’re here to help you. Let’s take a look at our ten tips to become a good kisser below.

Pick The Right Moment

Observe your partner’s body language cues so that you can know when it is the right time to make a kiss. Forcing the other person into a kiss, by all means, is unacceptable and they surely feel insecure when being around you. Instead, just simply asking your partner like, "Can I kiss you?" and wait for consent. This sweet gesture shows that you care about how they feel and they will remember it for days and crave to kiss you long and hard.

Mind Your Breath

Bad breath or scummy teeth will always be a turnoff for a potential partner; therefore you should be very aware of what you’ve recently eaten such as coffee or onion and garlic and always have breath mints on hands. Showing someone you care enough about their comfort to freshen up means a lot and goes a long way.

Care For Your Lips

You never know when the kiss happens, so it's important to make sure that your lips are soft and kissable all the time. For those who with chapped or dry lips, it helps to always carry a lip balm with you.

Use Your Tongue Wisely

Using your tongue can be great in moderation. However, no one wants to be doused in salivas, or have their mouth filled by someone's tongue. Therefore, you should begin with slow kisses and play with her lips for a few seconds, then open your mouth a little bit, and if everything feels right, try a little tongue and wait for her response before getting into a more passionate kiss.

Be Spontaneous

Kissing is all about the back-and-forth exchange, so feel free to try different styles of kissing to keep it interesting. Try to be gentle is the key, like slightly tugging on your partner’s lower lips with your teeth while kissing them.

Follow Each Other's Lead

Kissing is a team effort, and a good kisser knows how to imitate their partner’s movement. Anytime when your partner has a different way of kissing, sit back and let them do their thing. Observe what your partner is doing and then do it to them. If they kiss you gently, mirror them and kiss them passionately. If they are a bit aggressive, then match up.

Give Each Other Positive Feedback

Nothing seals a great kiss like giving your partner positive feedback like, ‘You’re a good kisser’, and this can make them feel better and more confident. Even if they are not the best kisser in the world, give them a second chance by gently guiding and helping them practise in different ways.

Take Your Time

It probably goes without saying that going slow in every kiss is a must to become a good kisser. Don’t get too much heavy-handed with your tongue or trying to lead the way or control the situation.

Educate Yourself About Erogenous Zones

You are going to miss a lot if you focus on kissing only your partner’s lips. Pay more attention to grazing potential of the nose, collarbone, ear lobes, the neck - you definitely should plant endless kisses there. Also, some people are not a big fans of a hickey when it comes to kissing, therefore, don’t latch on or bite down unless the other person suggests that they are into it.

Pay Attention To Surroundings

It is undeniable that special surroundings also contribute to making your kiss interesting and passionate because when you are indulged in a kiss, your eyes are closed most of the time so you can hear and feel everything around you more clearly. Try to kiss your partner in the sea, in a tent under the stars or a sudden rainstorm, and you will know what we’re trying to say.