What Precious Things Extroverts Should Learn From Introverts?

It is believed that extroverts have a better life than introverts as we all live in a fast-paced world and communication is extremely important. However, is it bad being an introvert? Let's find out the answer!

The person who is called an extrovert has a reputation for being well-known and easy to communicate with. This personality trait benefits them a lot nowadays, especially in the business world. Mark Vahrmeyer - a psychotherapist from the U.K said that extroversion might be more appreciated than introversion.

Staying updated to the happenings around means we need to be socially active. However, he addressed a question: “is extroversion something that we should all aspire to?”

According to experts, sometimes, an introverted person can bring a great number of advantages. We can not recognize it because of the way we discuss these two personalities. Extroverts, therefore, should spend some time learning from their introverted peers.

1. Thinking twice before speaking

Carolyn Ball - the owner of Elevate Counseling + Wellness as well as a psychotherapist said that extroverts find it easy to talk about all of the possibilities rather than set them up in their minds. In contrast, thoughts are internally processed by introverts and only spoken out when being fully formed. This makes them “thoughtful and composed,” she added.

2. Not giving too much attention to what others think

Vahrmeyer said extroverts tend to “seek reassurance" from public opinion meanwhile introverts don't depend on this much. This turns out to be tremendously helpful in having a real connection with other people. We need a stable relationship, rather than a fake one.

3. Being a great listener

In a conversation, introverts become an excellent listener as she/he appears to be more observant as well as not interrupt the opposite, said Erin Nicole McGinnis - a psychotherapist and founder of East-West Holistic Psychotherapy.

McGinnis also discussed that listening skills might bring effectiveness to any argument. Introverts create deeper and more meaningful debates, therefore, small talk is not their interest.

4. Sometimes, it's better to spend time alone

Stephanie Johnson - a strategist in communication, shared her experience as being an introvert. Having time with herself allows Johnson to stay away from unneeded distractions around. This gives room for her real and inner thoughts to develop. That process is, according to Johnson, "not always pleasant or fun" but essential.

5. To respect boundaries

Extroverts, sometimes, push others to their limit or even beyond their limit. Meanwhile, introverts adopt that cue quite quickly, said Mary Joye - a mental health mentor. Respecting other people's endurance limits so-called boundaries is very important and a must-have personality.

6. Hitting pause button is crucial

Extroverts are kind of suitable for this fast-paced life as they have a lot of energy, said Belinda Ginter who is a mindset expert from Canada. However, we sometimes find out that living calmly gives us tons of benefits. It is how we "enjoy the process", Ginter said. Doing nothing for a while makes you feel relaxed and self-satisfied.

7. Making better decisions

According to Christine Agro - an expert in meditation, unlike extroverts, introverts always reflect before 'jumping into conclusion'. In most cases, making decisions too quickly cause errors or passing better options. Hence, slow down and we will be lead to expected success.

8. Being a nature lover

Jean G. Fitzpatrick who is a relationship therapist said that living among ever-green creatures is an incredible mood-booster. This statement is strongly agreed by Johnson, “Nature is my church", she informed. Having a trip to the jungle, breathing the fresh air, listening to the bird from far distance... will ease you after long hours of hard-working.

Above all, no matter who you are, introverts or extroverts, each personality trait has its merit and demerit. We need to select and adjust ourselves to live our best life.