S.E.X Isn’t Just About Having Orgasm! 4 Tips For Incredible S.E.X Without An Orgasm

Priyansh Ha|Jul 06, 2019

Instead of setting sublimely orgasm your sex goal, enjoy the pure pleasure of having sex. Here are a few tips which can make your sex experience better whether you have an orgasm or not.

Most of us get our first sex lesson from porn (and movies, books or TV shows) which portray orgasm as an inseparable part of sex. In fact, all of them have the same motif starting with undressing scene, skipping all the romantic kisses or awkward moment having your arms stuck in your sleeves and highlighting the sublimation of sex with an orgasm which usually lasts longer than usual.

As a result, we are convinced with the idea that having an orgasm is the ultimate goal of sex, which turns out to be completely wrong.

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Of course, having an orgasm is a great experience that everyone deserves to have during sex. However, the reality isn’t as fantastic as the one we see in porns or films. In fact, not all women and even men come every time they have sex.

If having an orgasm is the main factor which decides whether your sex is a successful one or not, it will make both partners feel stressed and harder to come.

So here is the point: instead of setting sublimely orgasm your sex goal, enjoy the pleasure of having sex. Getting connected both emotionally and physically is the true value of sex. Here are a few tips which can make your sex experience better whether you have an orgasm or not. 

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Make Foreplay The Main Act

While foreplay is said to be optional when it comes to sex, it surprisingly contributes to wonderful sex. If you think all that stuff from neck kissing to fingering and making out are just to get your partner come, you’re missing the pleasure of foreplay.

Enjoy every move and touch you make, go down on your partner while reading a dirty book, give it a try with sex toys or roleplay, go with everything which makes both of you feel good.

In addition to that, try to prolong the foreplay as much as you can to see how far you can take it. The process is much more fantastic than you can ever imagine.

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Communicate During Sex

As mentioned above, real-life sex is not perfect and as smooth as what we see in films. In fact, there are a lot of awkward, inconvenient moments in between which require us to navigate. Of course, talking about sex will be a bit weird at first.

However, it's crucial if you really want to improve your sexual experience. Once both of you are open and free to talk about it, you guys will know exactly what each other really want and how to please them. 

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Orgasm Parity Is Great, But Not Everything

It’s ideal for the two to come during sex. However, it is unnecessary for one to try to come (or fake it) at all price when the other gets off first. As it is harder (or even impossible) for some women to come, it doesn’t mean they cannot have a good sexual experience.

Paying too much attention to having an orgasm will make you feel burdened and stressful. Forget all those leg-shaking orgasms, take it easy and roll with it.

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Don't Forget After-care!

As orgasm isn’t the ultimate goal of sex, even when both of you have come, it doesn’t mean that this is the end of the game. Keep the feelings up high by holding and kissing your partner subtly. Communicate with each other, ask them how they feel and what they want to do next?

Even when you’re too sleepy, tired or hot to cuddle your partner, falling asleep with one hand on their thigh is definitely a disastrous ending.

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