7 S.E.X Advice Every Spouse Of A S.E.X Addict Should Know

Nari Arora|Aug 10, 2019, 0:00

Listening to sex advice is very important. This article will provide 7 worth-to-learn things every sex addicts should know.

Listening to sex advice is very important because people are always confused about their sexual habits. Brain's neurotransmitters are one of the factors contributing to sexual issues and behaviors.

Relational connection and closeness are negatively hindered by dysfunctional bonding and self-esteem are consistently encountered.

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Here are 7 sex advice every spouse of a sex addict should know.

Sex advice number 1: Your mistrust matters

In marriage, you may feel separated from the other sometimes. That's normal. Do you ever feel jealous for no reason? In fact, interactive connection partially boosts this kind of negative emotion. However, when irregular manners in bed arise, problems will be definitely addressed.

Sex advice number 2: You are not the one to be blamed

We are all free to make the decision about our sexual behaviors. In most cases, choosing to be extraordinary in sex will appear early before marriage. So, it means that you can not answer the question of why your husband is a sexual addict.

However, while your husband's decisions are not because of you, they affect you. There are a lot of outcomings mentioned: Reduction in sexual pleasure, the enjoyment of sex and love, trust issues. However, the worse thing is that you assume the responsibility for someone else's fault.

Healing only happens when your husband changes his perception and starts to tackle the inner emotions of the relationship, which brought about his decisions.

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It's not your fault

Sex advice number 3: You can not change him

No matter how hard you try, it is just hopeless. The only person you can have an effect on is yourself. An explanation will never work for those addicts as they always figure out a way such as GPS, blocking tools... Endless complaining and stalking your husband's behaviors only adds up your stress and reduces your self-esteem. Don't mind his problem if he doesn't seek help, take yourself as your first priority.

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While you can not do anything to help him, ask him to find help from other people. Disregard the issue is as damaging as trying to patch it up. The best method in healing a marriage is when both of you deal with each other's problem before you manage to solve the marriage concern.

Sex advice number 4: You should care for your own feelings

Sooner or later, you will encounter many depressing affections (anger, isolation, fear,..) if you are in a troubled marriage. It's essential to let yourself feel the real emotions, the pain of being betrayed, the trust and the sense of lack.

Therefore, the role of supportive friends and relatives is very initial. Seek their help in the process of recovery. It's not good to make big decisions on your own, without any pieces of advice from others. Prepare for yourself smart strategy with the help of a therapist who is trained in sexual recovery and wellbeing.

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Being betrayed is the worst thing in a relationship

Sex advice number 5: Forgiveness doesn't mean you have to forget

Forgive is one of the greatest personality that every partner of a sex addict needs in fixing a broken marriage.

Forcing him to "pay the price" only creates embarrassment, fear of being publicly punished. This even drives your husband into new levels of hiding secrets.

Necessary boundaries need establishing as well as plans for healing. Forgiveness doesn't mean you have to let all those negative feelings sleep. You had better replace punishment by his betrayal revenge.

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Your value is always taken priority

Sex advice number 6: Appreciate the power inside you

You have the right to seek help from others, take it or leave it, set or break boundaries, for your own sake. Having the confidence to choose between options gives you the power and the belief to control your life and relationship.

You do not need to play the victim in the journey of healing while experiencing mistrust and betrayal. Hence, you will definitely need support and advice from true friends as well as encouragement.

When you perceive that you matter, your value is much more important than anything else, you will be able to build walls and fight for them as hard as you can.

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Forgetting doesn't mean forgiving

Sex advice number 7: You are deserved everything

You are, sometimes, convinced that his sexual issues should be blamed on you, according to shame. However, shame will never be an excuse. Unless you are able to give yourself private space, you will not split up your husband's orientation from yours.

Gradually, you can not achieve healthy self-esteem in fixing the problems. With a suitable approach, there is still hope.

These 7 sex advice mentioned above are not enough. It is you who can be the best therapist of yourself. Everything will be worked out if you know how, so, don't give up in the middle of anywhere!

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